If Whedon fans are half the feminists they claim Joss is, then they need to stop being so effing dismissive of valid concerns.
Even if everything they say about the show's purpose is spot on, the more I hear things like
"Joss got an award from Equality Now, and they should know!/His previous shows were feminist, so obviously this is!"
the more it's starting to annoy the bejeesus out of me. Every go around it sounds more like but Joss is a card carrying feminist and he understands feminism better than all you stupid women ever will.